Every year on the second week of January [that's this week] I review my life and plan the upcoming year. On most occassions I will use a formal life coaching program. One of my favorites is Tony Robbins ‘Get The Edge’. Other times, if I am struggling for inspiration as to what I want to achieve, I spend a day or two just searching the Internet for what’s happing in the world. Trendwatching.com is one of my favorite sites for keeping up to date. It’s amazing how we can all get caught up in our own little spheres of interest and not even be aware of the options that are now available today.
I have an underlying life philosophy that I never want to spend my life just doing the same things day after day…..takes me back to the television movie ‘Ground Hog Day’. Now I may have rattled a few chains with that comment, as many of you may be absolutely blissful with your life right now. That’s fine…all happiness to you. I, however want to know what ALL my options are, and live my life for ‘experiences’ rather than dollars.
Now, I am fortunate that I have been a successful business coach and consultant for many years and have goal setting ingrained into my psyche. But how can you set goals if you are not aware of what goal options you have. Sure we all know about the ‘lose weight’, ‘exercise more’, ’spend more time with the family’; but what about your life experiences. When was the last time you did something, just for the hell of it, and just for you. With all the recent family first brainwashing we have all been subjected to, it is easy to feel guilty about doing something just for yourself.
I love my family, I wouldn’t trade having had children for anything in the world, and I have gone to extremes to provide them with the best I could in life…..but along the way I made sure I did stuff that enriched my life as well. Being a parent is only ONE role I had. I was also a wife, a daughter, a friend, a business colleague, and my own life coach.
It’s my life, I’ll do it my way, and I will take 100% responsibility for the outcomes. That’s the key. Everything has a price. And if you are aware of the price, and accept it, then full steam ahead. So what about you, what price are you paying for the way you are living your life now? What opportunity cost is attached to your decisions? What are you not doing now that you really want to?
And you want to know the really scary part? Most of us don’t even know what we really WANT!!! We all think we do, but it’s only by working through a structured goal setting program that you really get in touch with your personal values. Not the ones your parents taught you to have, not the ones society dictates to you by social convention and not the ones that you think make you friends and influence people. I mean the real deep gut values that make you really happy.
Hopefully now I have you thinking. So why not take the next step and at least check out a couple of options that may help you. I am not giving you these links as a sales pitch. Like I said, I use Tony Robbins Get The Edge every year, and I use my program workbook all year long. If you don’t think you could handle that one straight out, then I can suggest a bundle of Life Coaching Assistance Ebooks that will help you with your resolutions for this year.
Making changes in your life isn’t always easy. So many of us just stay with what we know. Ever heard of being in a rut? Well, all of you just doing the same thing over and over again because its comfortable are collectively digging a new Grand Canyon.
Making your resolutions in the easy bit. Taking action is the hard bit. But it is also where you reap the real rewards. So I strongly urge you to get some help in getting going with what may turn out to be your best year ever. Good luck, and if you need help, post a comment back on this blog.
My very best wishes for success in 2007
Nicola
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